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* Figure out what is necessary, vs merely convenient * Evaluate the money/time tradeoffs in your immediate environment * Know when someone is trying to help y
by arandr0x 8y ago
* Figure out what is necessary, vs merely convenient
* Evaluate the money/time tradeoffs in your immediate environment
* Know when someone is trying to help you, is just living their life, or is actively trying to harm you
* Say no to anybody
* Make decisions (lots of decisions on things of varying consequences), and then actively look back and evaluate them, and being OK with them being wrong in retrospect
Right now or at any other time 13 year olds need to start learning how to become adults, because they are starting to look like adults in enough ways that they will progressively be less and less protected by the people around them. This takes a decade or so for most people, but it's mostly okay. Some things take time.