Would you rather have Linux, or would you rather that noone ever get their feelings hurt by harsh comments? Sounds like a false dilemma or externalized either/

Would you rather have Linux, or would you rather that noone ever get their feelings hurt by harsh comments? Sounds like a false dilemma or externalized either/or to me. It's not as if Linux could not have existed had Linus learned 20 years ago to dial down his abrasiveness.