I am aware of all those things, because I did it. So I know it is not trivial; I'm not being disingenuous at all. I made the trade offs for my family. I am just

I am aware of all those things, because I did it. So I know it is not trivial; I'm not being disingenuous at all. I made the trade offs for my family. I am just wondering what other people's thoughts are.