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> If you can bear it, go solo, and watch the other guests make a beeline toward you. This advice seems heavily skewed towards attractive people.
by oconnor663 8y ago
> If you can bear it, go solo, and watch the other guests make a beeline toward you.
This advice seems heavily skewed towards attractive people.
- nicoburns 8y agoNot necessarily. I've often found that if I set by myself for long enough at parties then usually someone will come along and start a conversation. And I'm male and not remotely attractive. The trick is to sit somewhere it it doesn't look like your awkwardly not joining in, but purposely choosing to be.
- Avalaxy 8y agoAfter reading this sentence I just wanted to comment here that the article seems to be written very much from a female POV. As a lone guy, surely people won't "beeline towards you". It requires a lot more effort and initiative.