Some of those are really lame. 11. If I have children and provide primary care for them, I’ll be praised for extraordinary parenting if I’m even marginally com

Some of those are really lame. 11. If I have children and provide primary care for them, I’ll be praised for extraordinary parenting if I’m even marginally competent. I don't know where the author came from, but I don't think thats true. Maybe in the black community (oh look, now I'm a racist as well...), but definitely not where I grew up. Any father who wasn't involved in the raising of their children was seen as a bit of a deadbeat.