Just anecdotal evidence, but during my divorce 2 other SW engineers I know also got divorced and another one asked me for advice on how to get it started. I kno

Just anecdotal evidence, but during my divorce 2 other SW engineers I know also got divorced and another one asked me for advice on how to get it started. I know lots of SW guys with stories of horrible divorces and insane legal bills which took decades to pay off. Maybe it's because I'm in Southern California where the divorce rate is something like 75%.