This is the kind of thing everyone should think through post-highschool/college/in their 20s -- glad someone's written it out. I would love another guide/write-

This is the kind of thing everyone should think through post-highschool/college/in their 20s -- glad someone's written it out. I would love another guide/write-up like this for friendship -- it seems like people my age (late 20s/early 30s) and younger are in this world where "friendship" means so little (as used by Facebook) and yet so much (as used by your actual friends who you make efforts to see and enjoy spending time with). Finding people that have actively thought through many of life's quandaries (should you eat meat? how should governments be run? what do you want out of life?) and have formed opinions backed by mostly fact but who are ready to change in the presence of new data is so difficult though. I have a hunch I'm not looking in the right places but even in my late 20s I run into so many people who just haven't thought about most of the important shit and are just looking to glob onto someone for the rest of their life. Like sure, listening to music and digesting memes is great, but if you can't align or at least come to reasoned disagreement with your partner on shit that really matters, what is everyone doing.