It's also presumptive to assume that I won't be judged by the way I dress because I'm a guy, that potential partners don't immediately consider me a dork with n

It's also presumptive to assume that I won't be judged by the way I dress because I'm a guy, that potential partners don't immediately consider me a dork with no social skills because I work with computers, that I'm considered a hero rather than lazy when I put life ahead of work, that I get to walk home unafraid after a late night coding spree (because guys are never harmed, or raped, right? and I'm never worried that I'll be unable to defend myself since I'm a big strong man, right?)