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I've definitely felt this. I'm more 'mindful' as the article says.. in the sense that I can step outside my emotions and control them. As in, if I'm getting an
by amingilani 8y ago
I've definitely felt this. I'm more 'mindful' as the article says.. in the sense that I can step outside my emotions and control them.
As in, if I'm getting angry, I can step outside the anger and evaluate whether it's necessary or helpful at the moment or not. If it isn't, I stop it. Otherwise, I let the anger creep into my voice to make the other person more receptive to the urgency of the situation.
It works similarly for other emotions: like, fear, shame, jealousy, frustration or even sadness... which is why I don't often cry at funerals.
I don't know if that makes me a sociopath or not, but it definitely makes me more rational.
That said, I also seem to feel a lot less pain than my wife who tends to panic easier. If I stub my toe, cut my finger or even accidentally grab a falling soldering iron from the wrong end, I can disassociate from the pain, or at least give it a back seat. The hand is mine, but the pain feels like someone else's.
As such, I get a lot more cuts and bruises than my wife. I've even had instances where I had bleeding cuts on my hand that I kept thinking were itches.. I kept confusing the blood for mysterious coppery liquid oozing out of the device I was repairing. Turns out I'd nicked my fingers prying it open.. explained how the liquid kept coming back after I wiped it.
- jdkoeck 8y agoAre you sure you're just "more rational"? None of that seems mindful. It sounds like you're bordering dissociative disorder.
- finnthehuman 8y agoYou've taken someone's mastery of a life skill we expect of all adults (emotional self-control) and are pointing to the closest pathological condition you can find even though it's mile and miles away from what the parent poster describes.
- jdkoeck 8y agoParent poster is confusing his own blood with “mysterious coppery liquid”, even after wiping it several times off his fingers. That’s not a good sign.