I asked about children not because of curiosity, but how to deal with the situation. I think if OP doesn't have kids, then the best would be just finish all th

I asked about children not because of curiosity, but how to deal with the situation. I think if OP doesn't have kids, then the best would be just finish all the contacts with ex-wife. Physical and mental. It's mental effort due to fact that you can't forget you had wife. If OP has kids, the situation is more complicated. Kids need parents, even they are divorced/separated. So I would encourage to keep the best contact with them as possible in certain circumstances. The problem is that there will be need to constantly meet ex-wife, and that would require even bigger mental effort to deal with it.