You seem to be making the argument that you feel you should have some say about what goes on in other people's bedrooms. My only question was whether you live u

You seem to be making the argument that you feel you should have some say about what goes on in other people's bedrooms. My only question was whether you live up to that ideal by making sure that the people around you are okay with your sex acts and the people you enjoy them with. Are they? Have you made sure they're informed so they can judge you properly?