Ask HN: Older Hackernewsers What are the things you used to be bothered about.

What are the things you used to fear that you no longer fear, what things really bothered you when you were younger but don't seem to bother you now. I bother about a lot of things ; wanting to be rich or at least not be poor ever again, I really do want to have a large amount of sexual relationship with beautiful women before I get married, and I also do want to be somewhat relevant in the programming community, either as an hacker of founder; and I want to be reassured that sometime in the future I will not be bothered by these things again, whether I achieved them or not, I do really want to achieve them though.