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I'm fairly similar. It's become a way to save and share family photos and stories. That said, I find real value in that. I know what I share and save on Facebo
by ianbicking 8y ago
I'm fairly similar. It's become a way to save and share family photos and stories.
That said, I find real value in that. I know what I share and save on Facebook is going to be there in 10 years, and probably will still be somewhere accessible in 50 years. Everyone pretends personal systems (where you are "in control") are safer, but I know how many photos and files I've misplaced over the years.
And Facebook encourages me to do more than just post blind photos, but also to give a story. I've looked through old photo albums, and the pictures become empty all too quickly. I could do all this on my own, but again I'll probably lose things or the stories and photos will become disassociated or some other mistake, or I'll be gone and no one will know or care to retrieve them from whatever system I've created. But even more so I need a reason to put everything together, and sharing it immediately with other people – people who show, even trivially, that they care – gives me a reason.
Facebook's Memories feature has already shown me that this is important – seeing something I shared one or five or ten years ago makes me realize these things matter to me.
Maybe other people have ways of doing disciplined documentation of their life and experiences and family that I don't. But I'm doubtful.