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This deserves the king of making decisions: https://waitbutwhy.com/2016/09/marriage-decision.html https://waitbutwhy.com/2016/09/marriage-decision.html
by rosstex 8y ago
This deserves the king of making decisions:
https://waitbutwhy.com/2016/09/marriage-decision.html https://waitbutwhy.com/2016/09/marriage-decision.html
- xaranke 8y agoThis was great, thanks for sharing!
- syntaxing 8y agoWow, this is a great site. I was reading the post about careers[1] and it's reflect strongly how I felt when I first came out of college and why I was so miserable (and slightly still am...). [1] https://waitbutwhy.com/2018/04/picking-career.html https://waitbutwhy.com/2018/04/picking-career.html
- teabee89 8y agoInteresting WaitButWhy, but in my opinion, the real big decision is about children, not marriage. The difference of responsibility is light years apart. Marriage can be undone.
- ivankirigin 8y agoKids and money are the biggest reasons for divorce. Get on the same page about both while you're dating. If someone can't handle an open conversation, they won't make a good partner.
- q-base 8y agoCould you elaborate on the open conversation?
- sjg007 8y agoProbably means an open and honest conversation. Question vis-a-vi: Do you want kids? If we can't have kids without IVF do we do it? If IVF with our own gametes fails do we use donors? What if we cannot afford it? Do we adopt? Will you be an equally contributing parent? How will we raise them? Religion? Vaccines? Education.. All those things... It's a lot to parse. Expectations of parenthood.