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It's pretty brave of her actually to say that she's experienced a lot of flaking. Highly desired individuals probably don't get flaked very often, so admitting
by tw1010 8y ago
It's pretty brave of her actually to say that she's experienced a lot of flaking. Highly desired individuals probably don't get flaked very often, so admitting you get flaked about 50% of the time is kind of admitting that you have friends who feel like they have better things to do, which is admirable.
- solatic 8y agoOh come on, that's like saying that victims have it coming to them. The fault is on the person who flakes, and meeting a lot of people who flake is little more than bad luck.
- pitt1980 8y agoThis exchange does make me wonder how often she makes plans we people who've already previously flaked on her. There probably are ways to minimize the risk of getting flaked on. Engineering your life for zero flakes, is probably sub-optimal though. Probably a better strategy is just to keep a kindle with reading you want to do with you (or something along those lines), so if you do flaked on, the time isn't a total waste.
- Spearchucker 8y agoIt's only admirable to one who desires to be desirable, no? Many of us are as happy with our own company as we are with that of our family and/or friends. And for sure there's no shortage of things to do if someone blows me out.
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