> Don't blame it on yourself. Do you mean blame as in moral responsibility or as in causality? It's a crucial difference that people miss too often. Of course

> Don't blame it on yourself. Do you mean blame as in moral responsibility or as in causality? It's a crucial difference that people miss too often. Of course, suffering guilt over a thing like this is not very productive. But correcting your behaviour, like letting your eyes rest, is still a good idea.