I wanted to add - I think of myself as a "protector" personality type, so, I'm wrestling with this precisely because I personally see it and find I don't have t

I wanted to add - I think of myself as a "protector" personality type, so, I'm wrestling with this precisely because I personally see it and find I don't have the power to change it. You are right though, we do have some control for ourselves and our families and we do have rights and responsibilities to protect that. And we can be pragmatic about that. To those things I cannot disagree and it is our responsibility as responsible adults to do that.