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Add up how much a nanny, preschool, etc. costs and compare it to a non upper tech salary, and you will quickly realize that stay at home parent != failed breadw
by GuiA 8y ago
Add up how much a nanny, preschool, etc. costs and compare it to a non upper tech salary, and you will quickly realize that stay at home parent != failed breadwinner. Especially when you’re starting to account for more than one kid.
- danieltillett 8y agoI am not suggesting that being a stay-at-home parent doesn't make sense, just that the "I am retired" is just cover for a man who is the stay-at-home parent. While it shouldn't be this way, unfortunately many see a stay-at-home dad as a failed breadwinner.
- smhost 8y agoMany people don't see it that way. People are generally understanding of changing circumstances and don't hold others to antiquated notions of masculinity.
- danieltillett 8y agoI don't disagree, but many don't and that is where the need for cover comes in.
- ryan-allen 8y agoI think having one parent home looking after the kid is very important for the kids development, it doesn't matter which one stays at home in my opinion.