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Emotions are involved, but is it the root cause of procrastination ? My understanding is that fear related emotions are closer to the root cause. Fear of failu
by chmike 8y ago
Emotions are involved, but is it the root cause of procrastination ?
My understanding is that fear related emotions are closer to the root cause. Fear of failure, fear of imperfection, fear of wasting time and energy, fear to be rejected, ...
I don't think that emotions like Anger, love or sadness are root causes.
Fear can worsen through time with new painful experiences. But fear can also be tamed.
One way is by adopting the development mindset. Failure is normal when we learn and practice. It is through practicing, and thus some failures, that we get better. No one is borned perfect at something. (See Dr. Dweck's book "Mindset").
Another way is by analyzing and identifying the root cause of fears. I could for instance fear to go in kitchens. That would be very disabling. By searching the root cause, I could find out that I got burned by touching an oven when I was a toddler. Or I could deduce that the kitchen is not dangerous in itself. Only the sharp knives and a hot oven are dangerous. One can then enter the kitchen and avoid the real dangers. Etc.
- posterboy 8y agoI don't think it's fear as much as being spoiled. Sure a student dreads failing an exam, but there's a lot of machinery starting up every time that fear is invoked, to find apologies and calm, soothing prospects on how it's going to work out eventually. That machinery existing, not even running through to a satisfying result, is comforting enough to overrule the fear. The oversized emotional attachment the article mentions must relate to the activities done instead of the thing which apparently too little emotion is attached. What is called Fear of Missing Out.