If you're a regular looking guy and you don't completely go out of your comfort zone, then you could spend years without any dates; it's normal; it doesn't mean

If you're a regular looking guy and you don't completely go out of your comfort zone, then you could spend years without any dates; it's normal; it doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. On one extreme, if you're good looking and rich, then maybe 99% of people you meet will like you. If you're plain looking and poor then maybe only 0.01% will like you so you just need to try MUCH harder. Being average does make it easier to form genuine (healthy) relationships though so it's not all bad. You don't want to attract the wrong kind of attention.