I was trying to show how usages change, I shouldn't try to be clever after business hours. But at one time the loosening of norms around language and women was

I was trying to show how usages change, I shouldn't try to be clever after business hours. But at one time the loosening of norms around language and women was seen as a progressive thing, a breaking down of barriers and back room type behavior, but it seems like we've run up to the limit of how far it can go.