Or the unobtainable person fantasy... btw I hope the parent parent poster means he learned about this from Dan Savage, sex advice columnist, and not Randy "Mach

Or the unobtainable person fantasy... btw I hope the parent parent poster means he learned about this from Dan Savage, sex advice columnist, and not Randy "Macho Man" Savage, professional wrestler. Although that stuff is totally homoerotic, so maybe.