I have a four year old. I research a company, try to determine what tools they use and architecture they might be employing. I research what people are paid the

I have a four year old. I research a company, try to determine what tools they use and architecture they might be employing. I research what people are paid there. If requiring a move, I do research on the location. This takes lots of time. The more of my time that is taken up, the less likely I am to bother. The position of the company may well be they aren't interested in someone who'll not keep jumping through more hoops and if that's their position, then it's fine. I likely don't want to work there. I'd likely be happier at a company that respects my time.