It would help, thank you for that. I was expecting an actual example, which what was my problem with the title. It was more subtle than that so I read the whole

It would help, thank you for that. I was expecting an actual example, which what was my problem with the title. It was more subtle than that so I read the whole thing but kept wanting to know what the damn line was. The downvotes that I am receiving actually reflects the same conceptual problem that you are outlining in the article. People are nice. They don't call out bullshit early on, and companies end up with nice-but-incompetent that can't deliver quality (but apparently can downvote on HN thinking they are doing right in life following the echo chamber). This doesn't plague many other licensed industries. Either you reach a level to get your license (and lose it if you are incompetent), or won't be doing your professional job at all. There is no "nice" in law, medicine, architecture, etc, where professionalism is concerned. It's conflicting. Should we be altruistic, promote teaching, but also promote being not nice? Or shall we be selfish, keeping quiet and ensuring our personal job-security because we can fix messes afterward. Overall, I think your blog is in the right general direction. Best of luck.