Agreed. I feel it missing myself a lot when I'm communicating with people - I will often realize in retrospect that the problem was the definition of terms, not

Agreed. I feel it missing myself a lot when I'm communicating with people - I will often realize in retrospect that the problem was the definition of terms, not the facts at hand or opinions of the participants. It's galling, and I wish there were a better way to learn such skills.