It's quite common. When I first struggled with my gender indentity, I looked at the world's history. Our Western societies puts such shame on individuals not on

It's quite common. When I first struggled with my gender indentity, I looked at the world's history. Our Western societies puts such shame on individuals not on the edges of the gender spectrum that it's easy to think you are outright crazy. I found many example of it thoughout history. I never made a complete list but here are some that comes to mind: - Samoan fa'afafine, - Native American Two-Spirits (umbralla term, each tribe has their own word), - South Asian Hijras, - Ethiopian Ashtime, - Hawaiin Māhū, - Philippines's multiple gender identities (baklâ, bayot,etc.), Etc.