I didn't know it in my 20s, but I was completely distracted by chasing girls to find one that I thought is perfect. Once I found my wife in my 30s, my ability t

I didn't know it in my 20s, but I was completely distracted by chasing girls to find one that I thought is perfect. Once I found my wife in my 30s, my ability to focus and learn went through the roof. Wish I had this focus when I was in school. My suggestion is to only have 1 or 2 goals and viciously cut everything else out. I've learnt to say no to other distractions. In fact, I only have a 2nd goal around because there is waiting involved in 1st goal.