Astonished that this was voted down: > what does he bring to the table? is a very good question I didn't notice anyone else asking. You talk about the negati

Astonished that this was voted down: > what does he bring to the table? is a very good question I didn't notice anyone else asking. You talk about the negatives, and seem to imply there aren't many positives, but are there any? Another thing I didn't notice anyone else saying, is maybe you could take a cooling out period. Back away for a little bit (tell him you're doing this of course) and see what happens and how you feel if you get a little "space" for a week or two. I bet you'll get some clarity about what you want to do, one way or the other.