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This might have been assumed, but it's worth reiterating that this could get really stressful and distracting for your business. To avoid that, you should do ev
by andreyf 16y ago
This might have been assumed, but it's worth reiterating that this could get really stressful and distracting for your business. To avoid that, you should do everything in your power to leave on good terms with him. First, talk to him in a non-confrontational way: ask him if there's anything that's getting in the way of his giving the project more attention. Politely let him know that you expect more of him, as a business partner, and see if he steps up. Set a concrete but reasonable goal date (I'd do about a month from now), and on that day, decide if you want to keep working with him for the next year or not. If you leave, suggest getting back together after he has a chance be more focused/organized/whatever.
I wouldn't bring lawyers into something like this until the very end, as they can put a very grim aura on the conversation. Have a heart-to-heart, figure out what you want, what he wants, and how both of you can be satisfied. Once you're sure of that, see a lawyer about making a legally binding agreement.
- keefe 16y agoIt's OK to be confrontational to a certain degree. He doesn't sound like the indispensable kind of co founder and would be in rough shape without OP, who is therefore in a position of power.
- andreyf 16y agoPower best unused, for the good of the customers, if no one else. One sincere but difficult conversation can substitute for months of fighting, stress, and legal threats. The ideal break-up, if one can't be avoided, would be to part ways amicably and get back to work.
- keefe 16y agoyes certainly nothing to the degree of fighting/stress/legal threats but op should be assertive in the initial conversation imho