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Why the heck is this being downvoted? That is the big problem: When someone has power over you you don't have the option to say "no." That's the entire godda
by dhimes 8y ago
Why the heck is this being downvoted? That is the big problem: When someone has power over you you don't have the option to say "no." That's the entire goddamn point.
- UncleMeat 8y agoBecause "it would have been different if you'd said 'no' more clearly" is a horribly common refrain that should be removed from our vocabulary. A weak no is still no and we should never criticize somebody for having a hard time saying no forcefully. Affirmative and enthusiastic consent.