Wow. I've only ever had one significant romantic relationship - still together after nearly 30 years. Just as we were coming to the end of our 30s we had an une

Wow. I've only ever had one significant romantic relationship - still together after nearly 30 years. Just as we were coming to the end of our 30s we had an unexpected blooming of the emotional and sexual intensity of our relationship that went on for years. When it eventually fizzled out (the intensity, not the relationship itself) I was heartbroken, and 3 years later I still kinda am, and still find it really hard to accept I do best when I manage not to think about it at all, but perhaps rewriting the story of that golden age in my head (obvs without demonising my wife) is what will actually work for me