Notice that the OP's love language of "Quiet stability" is not listed there. It's sorely undermentioned and often told that it's "wrong" in common western cult

Notice that the OP's love language of "Quiet stability" is not listed there. It's sorely undermentioned and often told that it's "wrong" in common western culture, even though tons of people (especially men) within it have that love language. That arbitrarily enshrined list of 5 is absolutely not representative of everybody.