There isn't one, at least not straightforwardly. There's a meta-hack, of sorts, however, that is: "You don't have to be this way, and you don't have to do wha

There isn't one, at least not straightforwardly. There's a meta-hack, of sorts, however, that is: "You don't have to be this way, and you don't have to do what others expect of you. You can change, and you don't have to ask permission. They will make you pay for it -- your friends, spouses, colleagues, institutions -- but the cost of the alternative can be higher still. Be free."