I was sexually assaulted a long time ago, and my therapist at the time recommended this book to me. I've re-read it many times. What you say is a point that th

I was sexually assaulted a long time ago, and my therapist at the time recommended this book to me. I've re-read it many times. What you say is a point that the book drives home many times. De Becker says it is better to stay away from a decent person than to allow a malicious person to get close to you. And if the person really is decent, they'll understand your reaction.