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> Has anyone had any luck finding a way to put perspective on it, or figure out a lie that helps keep you going? Don't lie to yourself, it's no good trying to
by lloeki 8y ago
> Has anyone had any luck finding a way to put perspective on it, or figure out a lie that helps keep you going?
Don't lie to yourself, it's no good trying to build some delusional version of the world, your subconscious mind knows how to look through the cracks of the mirror and the dead weight will rear its head at some point and pull down at the worst possible moment.
Getting some perspective is about learning to take a step back and contemplate (practicing mindfulness and meditation may help in strengthening the matching neural pathways). Yet keep in mind that it does not mean being indifferent[0]. Pick your fights, choose to act upon what you can and desire to[1]. Find balance.
[0]: (Warning: copious profanity) https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
[1]: https://i1.wp.com/thebestintent.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/ikigai_Toronto-star.jpg https://i1.wp.com/thebestintent.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/...