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If you have hobbies, look for a meetup around them. If you have pretty generic interests (wine, board games, and cheesecake), perhaps the best thing you can do
by fizx 8y ago
If you have hobbies, look for a meetup around them.
If you have pretty generic interests (wine, board games, and cheesecake), perhaps the best thing you can do is join a unitarian universalist church near you. It's all of the social benefits of church without the need to (pretend to) believe in anything specific.
Failing that, you can probably find another reasonable-ish religious community. There's a huge spectrum, and plenty of people do it casually just for the social aspect.
- neap24 8y agoI mostly agree. Although, it is often the "unreasonable, specific beliefs" that bind a social group together despite their differences. If that core belief or two is strong enough, you will force yourself to interact with people you wouldn't ordinarily hang out with. I have found this aspect of social clubs to be the most beneficial to me (and others). It also seems that belonging a religious community with moderately strict beliefs is the most efficient way to get this.
- claydavisss 8y ago...and if you don't have a hobby, get one! no one really wants to know about your job, they have one of their own. If you want people to be interested in you, be interesting!