Stop comparing your self to everyone else, you cant be better than every one at everything. This is obvious when spelled out, but not while you are judging your

Stop comparing your self to everyone else, you cant be better than every one at everything. This is obvious when spelled out, but not while you are judging your weakness. You will compare it to others who don't have that weakness, setting your self up for failure. Stop comparing your self to other individuals, you are not them, you don't have their strengths or weaknesses. You are trying to compare apples and oranges. Stop judging yourself over such a broad spectrum, you just can't be good at everything you don't have the time to learn it all. You have weaknesses sure but you also have strengths, deal with it, give your self a bit of credit where credit is due. Stop comparing your self to external forces that are beyond your control or ability to understand. Stop setting your self up for failure. Start comparing yourself today to yourself yesterday. "I always feel I'll be lagging" you can't lag behind yourself. "cannot make the same connections", "cannot have the same insight" you make your own insights and connects not others, this is your strength and their weakness, give your self some credit where credit is due. "I avoid trying to learn and develop" Don't try to match or improve on others, improve on yourself, start small. Learn one new thing a day, it doesn't have to be a big new complicated thing. Through out your day you will at some point have a question or a curiosity. Keep an eye out for it and encourage it, answer your question or do a bit of research, then make a note of it, job done, you are now objectively better than your competition(you yesterday) and have the note to prove it. Well done! Give yourself a reward like a coffee or a cookie :)