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I wonder, why governments don't make getting sex easier. Why isn't there any app where you can just pay to have guaranteed safe sex in a government audited est
by stealthmodeclan 8y ago
I wonder, why governments don't make getting sex easier.
Why isn't there any app where you can just pay to have guaranteed safe sex in a government audited establishments without any drama?
Right now, many play a game of courting a potential mate. Sometimes, feelings are hurt due to unpredictable nature of this game. It results in manipulation, lies and faking. It might make people who repeatedly fail to get any sex, a criminal.
When was the last time your date showed up without makeup? This reeks dishonesty, ambush and manipulation.
Efficiency of this market can cure many issues like sexual harassment, end scam market of pickup artist and many other crimes of passion.
Chasing other sex should be outlawed unless they've subscribed to the app and the application for sex goes through the government devised route.
If I've unsubscribed then no one should offer me drinks for the purpose of getting sex. This is good for everyone's sanity.
Why not just have an app and bet sums of money there, then everyone will be motivated to acquire more money instead of playing other games.
Blame is on society for making the act of paying for sex through sweat/blood a stigma.
Without sex we would have gone extinct by now and yet sex is not considered as the primary need of humans.
I know a lot tech workers who were promised sex in return of favours - training, jobs, finanical help using signals and later got sexual harassment charges when they successfully delivered.
Humans are seflish. They want something in return of something.
- IGI-111 8y agoThe most convincing argument against the commodification of sex is, in my opinion, that such intimacy holds a special enough place in human psychology that even an efficient sex market wouldn't make people happy. I'm not sure if it's too linked with pair bonding to be its own thing, but that's certainly something to consider. Still very much in the camp of legalization myself. If only because I can't fathom why the State gives itself the mandate to ban the exchange of this particular service in principle.
- kofejnik 8y ago> such intimacy holds a special enough place in human psychology that's exactly what religious conservatives of all sorts say when they want to prosecute extramarital sex
- modells 8y agoYes, it’s also the predominant view of the inexperienced, incels, sex-shaming dogmatics or losers whom don’t want others getting any either. If the “logic” of forbidding prostitution held, consenting adults exchanging money happening to involve a camera wouldn’t be allowed either. Prohibition never works. Ensure the safety of sex workers, not by driving them to require pimps and street-walking as FOSTA does. Most of the world came to this inevitable conclusion and decriminalized it. It’s about damn time magical-thinking snobs don’t get to have a say about how other people live their lives or make a living, because there’s no protecting of human-trafficking victims involved, in-fact, it put them in greater danger and further in the shadows. Government and religion should stay in their lanes. If they want to find human-traffickers, go ahead, without threatening whole industries or people’s livelihoods.
- maze-le 8y agoIf so, does this contradict the original statement? Just because one group is acting overzealous, it does not imply, that the premise is false.
- AstralStorm 8y agoNeither it implies the premise is true. Is the even a country with the likes of such a "sex market"? Is it worse or better than others?
- oceanghost 8y ago> The most convincing argument against the commodification of sex is, in my opinion, that such intimacy holds a special enough place in human psychology that even an efficient sex market wouldn't make people happy. If you're not doing this bit in a standup routine, you should be. "It's not cheating honey! It's just the commodification of sex!"
- erikpukinskis 8y agoSex is one of the primary means by which to control a populace. Our norms around sex are a battleground for control of our minds and motivations.
- mynewtb 8y agoThe privacy and blackmail implications of this app idea are huge, though I would love to be able visit a legal, professional, secure sex worker.