But what if they don't trust you until you can do things that they ask ? The difficult situation is people who do not trust you and ask you to do their own way

But what if they don't trust you until you can do things that they ask ? The difficult situation is people who do not trust you and ask you to do their own way until they do - not realizing that doing it their way is exactly what prevents you from doing your job. It is fairly typical in my experience, but I have not found a way to deal with it effectively.