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I'm not accusng you of lying but this story is extremely suspicious. It conflicts completely with my professional and personal experience, which I'm pretty sure

by gota 8y ago

I'm not accusng you of lying but this story is extremely suspicious. It conflicts completely with my professional and personal experience, which I'm pretty sure is close to the general truth. Unless you have found yourself working with a very peculiar group of people, you are being duped or just exaggerating to the point of being outright wrong. It is absolutely not a custom anywhere in Brazil, not even in Rio, to be late (_at all_) for professional appointments. _Especially_ systematically late that a "system" like that is put in place (and supposedly works). To be blunt, the idea that you could correct such behavior from professional adults by duping them with altered schedules is even childish. If this is indeed the case, please post the name of the company so we can blacklist everyone that works in that office

cm2012 8y ago
Not limited to Brazilians, but company culture starts at the top. If the boss doesn't care about time, everyone else will get the message and be lax as well. Things become systematic due to people following these established intra company norms.
TheCoreh 8y ago
It really depends on the industry, I guess. My observation, being born and having lived in Brazil for my whole life, is that there's a power/authority/seniority dynamic involved, too: If you have a meeting with a customer, you should be on time, but it's okay for them to be late. When meeting with your boss, they'll probably be late, but you probably shouldn't be. Internal meetings within the company usually start later than meetings with other companies. Once you know people professionally for a longer time, you'll also be more comfortable arriving later.
- brbrbrbrbr 8y ago
  so true.
- always_good 8y ago
  There's definitely a dominance element here in Mexico, too. My Mexican friend traveled a lot here for work to meet with various executives. These executives would be the ones who set the time. She'd drive four hours and arrive at their office for a 8am 1-on-1 meeting and be directed to a sofa outside their room. She told me often 30+ minutes would pass and the guy would be in there twiddling on his smartphone, she could see him right through the blinds. It was like some proof of time-burn to remind you that they had the power.
msansjr 8y ago
Nah, not suspicious at all! I am a Brazilian and still live here (for better or worse). I live in Minas Gerais, where things are not this bad, but last month we gave a party for my daughter's birthday. All the invitations were sent with a 30 minute offset from the real start time as agreed with the caterer because we knew everyone would be late, and it turned out fine. All my professional meetings start at least 15 minutes late, and it enrages me to no end! Yes, it is really that bad! >To be blunt, the idea that you could correct such behavior from professional adults by duping them with altered schedules is even childish. I tell you, it's real...

by gota 8y ago

cm2012 8y ago

Not limited to Brazilians, but company culture starts at the top. If the boss doesn't care about time, everyone else will get the message and be lax as well. Things become systematic due to people following these established intra company norms.

TheCoreh 8y ago

It really depends on the industry, I guess. My observation, being born and having lived in Brazil for my whole life, is that there's a power/authority/seniority dynamic involved, too: If you have a meeting with a customer, you should be on time, but it's okay for them to be late. When meeting with your boss, they'll probably be late, but you probably shouldn't be. Internal meetings within the company usually start later than meetings with other companies. Once you know people professionally for a longer time, you'll also be more comfortable arriving later.

brbrbrbrbr 8y ago
so true.
always_good 8y ago
There's definitely a dominance element here in Mexico, too. My Mexican friend traveled a lot here for work to meet with various executives. These executives would be the ones who set the time. She'd drive four hours and arrive at their office for a 8am 1-on-1 meeting and be directed to a sofa outside their room. She told me often 30+ minutes would pass and the guy would be in there twiddling on his smartphone, she could see him right through the blinds. It was like some proof of time-burn to remind you that they had the power.

msansjr 8y ago

Nah, not suspicious at all! I am a Brazilian and still live here (for better or worse). I live in Minas Gerais, where things are not this bad, but last month we gave a party for my daughter's birthday. All the invitations were sent with a 30 minute offset from the real start time as agreed with the caterer because we knew everyone would be late, and it turned out fine. All my professional meetings start at least 15 minutes late, and it enrages me to no end! Yes, it is really that bad! >To be blunt, the idea that you could correct such behavior from professional adults by duping them with altered schedules is even childish. I tell you, it's real...