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Great article! I'm struggling with how to respond to an argument from a customer. The customer wrote me a long email, refuting an article I wrote on the pros a
by novelist999 18y ago
Great article! I'm struggling with how to respond to an argument from a customer. The customer wrote me a long
email, refuting an article I wrote on the pros and cons of
using CSS in web design--setting the priority to high, no
less. In her letter, she tooted her own experience and
skills. Your article helped me realize why her letter
rankled me. It wasn't that she was disagreeing--I'm not
passionately for or against CSS and could care less what
she thinks about it. But by citing her credentials
the way she did, I felt she was calling my own into
question and using that as her basis of an argument. So
I'd put her debate in the Variant of the DH1. Ad Hominem
category.
And I've decided not to respond to her letter, customer or
not. Not only because it was demeaning, but also, because
I don't have the time or energy to launch round two.
This all got me thinking about how tired I am of the way
that people on the net feel they absolutely must write and
argue about something-- anything--they disagree with. So
many out there are quick to express their contempt for
other people's ideas and opinions. Most such arguments seem pointless and are usually fruitless.
If I read something I disagree with on the net, I take from it what I think is of value and ignore the rest. Time
is just to too short.