That is absolutely nuts. Do these people not realise you can change your name anyway? It's one of those really weird positions I don't understand the process of

That is absolutely nuts. Do these people not realise you can change your name anyway? It's one of those really weird positions I don't understand the process of getting to. I have to assume those people are nutjobs who want to enforce traditional gender roles and have servile women, and see this as an aspect of that, literally having ownership over their identity. It's kinda horrifying.