I agree with the overall theme of the article. People certainly overreact. It lost me when it attempted to make it a gendered issue. If anything, it has it back

I agree with the overall theme of the article. People certainly overreact. It lost me when it attempted to make it a gendered issue. If anything, it has it backwards. Imagine that we had an article that described the tyranny of high expectations at work for men? And how privileged women were because expectations were so low that something incompetent for a man would be fine for a woman? I worry that we got stuck on 'men are privileged' and are incapable of seeing anything else in any facet of life. Any gap between men and women is measured with the same male privilege yardstick.