But none of any of these discussions involves government, so why would you bring it up? Plus, you yourself said "the idea of safe spaces doesn't fly with [you]

But none of any of these discussions involves government, so why would you bring it up? Plus, you yourself said "the idea of safe spaces doesn't fly with [you]," which indicates that you're against them. If you're only wanting to talk about government enforcement, then you might want to say that.