Thank you for sharing. It does help to know we aren't alone. The bad part is, I would have been sorta-OK with breaking up if we could have talked about it, an

Thank you for sharing. It does help to know we aren't alone. The bad part is, I would have been sorta-OK with breaking up if we could have talked about it, and maintained some contact. We were having problems before this point, so it wasn't a total surprise. But she suddenly turned ice-cold. I've never had a relationship end so badly. I'm still friends with my ex-wife, for instance, and am Facebook friends and sometimes exchange some messages with the girlfriend I had before that, but this gf had a "personal policy" of basically deleting me from her life if we broke up, and she did exactly that. And the thing that really pushed her over the edge was when I complained that she wasn't helping with my move (which she wasn't). Edit: deleted the rest in response to parent's deletion; I don't want to violate his privacy.