Well, I just got married that year with a daughter on a way that we didn't entirely plan. My biggest advice would be along the lines: * your parents love you,

Well, I just got married that year with a daughter on a way that we didn't entirely plan. My biggest advice would be along the lines: * your parents love you, and you should ignore all of their well-meant advice, because it will bring you mostly stress * bringing up a kind is hard, but awesome * you and your wife will need both time together, and time apart * rewiew where you are in life and where do you want to get