>Quite the contrary, a nanny will not just keep them nourished and on schedule, but also provide emotional comfort and educational activities. When my son was

>Quite the contrary, a nanny will not just keep them nourished and on schedule, but also provide emotional comfort and educational activities. When my son was younger, we had a part-time nanny (about 15 hours/week) who was simply wonderful. She was always "present", focused on enrichment, and truly loved our son. Even though she hasn't been our nanny for many years, we still keep in touch and occasionally get together. I've also seen the other side, where a nanny or au-pair is literally just an adult ensuring the kids are alive at the end of the day. Definitely one case where you'd want a solid reference!