An alternate way of saying this is that "feelings are not smart". A very common refrain today is "follow your heart" or follow the path that is derived from yo

An alternate way of saying this is that "feelings are not smart". A very common refrain today is "follow your heart" or follow the path that is derived from your feelings. Instead of looking at the consequences of your choices, just go where you feel good. We have just been through a funeral for a friend where the feelings of grief have not been tempered by thoughtful consideration. This has lead to words being said that should not have been as they have long term consequences for the surviving family members (especially the children). I am not saying that there is anything wrong about feelings, just don't let them be the director of your decisions.