It's a very small (5 people) outsourcing programming company working for a grown up foreign startup (30 people, now setting up a beachhead in another country).

It's a very small (5 people) outsourcing programming company working for a grown up foreign startup (30 people, now setting up a beachhead in another country). There is no HR, my boss does the job interview himself, and he believes HR are crooks. I just don't think I can prove he is a malicious manipulator, much less a psycho. It would become my word vs his word. Unlike his pal, who used to liberally sling racial slurs, he watches his words. If his remarks are consistently demeaning towards me, you'd still need to listen to perhaps hours of wiretapping to pick up a pattern.