How did you figure out that "we" are basically shutting that part off"? I live in a part of California that is less Christian than ever, but no less religious t

How did you figure out that "we" are basically shutting that part off"? I live in a part of California that is less Christian than ever, but no less religious than the deep South. And many dating profiles say "spiritual but not religious". Perhaps there's just as much of that part as in the past?